My last post involved the first step in dealing with our dislike of others. That step was to simply “be quiet” regarding our bad feelings. Our dislike of someone else is no one's business, even if we want to make it their business. We love to talk, specifically about things and people that we don’t care much for. Consequently, when our inner feelings about someone manifests into actual audible words, we begin to do damage to their character and ours. We may not fully realize the amount of damage that can actually be done when we speak poorly of others. We can damage their lives, and we may destroy our own witness in the process. More often than not, our lives, and the lives of others, would be much better if we just talked less...and maybe thought more...in silence.
Assuming we can “hold captive” our words, we still find ourselves with feelings of dislike.
So, what’s the next step?
If we’re disciples of Christ, and we’re praying about how we engage the world in a manner that emulates God’s character and plan, then we must examine what’s on our inside, just under our shiny Christian exterior – and bring it under control.
Let’s look at a verse…
II Corinthians 10:5 – “We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ…”
The context of II Corinthians 10 is spiritual warfare. Have you ever viewed your dislike of someone else as a form of spiritual warfare? If not, now is the time, because that can absolutely be the case. Our minds and our thoughts are the frontline on the battleground of spiritual warfare, and they are often our weakest fortification. How’s your defense looking? Can we take our very thoughts captive to become subservient to God's will for us?
Satan will go to exhaustive degrees to punish our earthly life. If he can establish a small dissension between us and others, he will. The subtle feelings of dislike for another that form in our mind can quickly lead us to develop stronger feelings of dislike, easily being a catalyst for hatred in the long run. Dislike is the seed of hatred; it’s often the seed of gossip and careless words, of which we will be held accountable (Matthew 12:36), and dislike brings severe distraction into our walk with God, making our day to day thoughts about the negative. These can all come about because we’ve carelessly allowed Satan to plant the seeds of dislike into our heart and mind.
I Peter 5: 8-9a – “Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith…”
The instruction of I Peter 5 is directed towards those who “shepherd the flock,” but it’s great instruction for us all, because we all help to shepherd someone…specifically public opinion. Let’s be clear to understand that Satan, in his prowling around us like a lion, with a mind set on devouring, is looking for weak points in our walk with God and our feelings toward others. He only has to catch us distracted for a moment to implant some dislike into our heart, a dislike that is easily watered and ready to grow. When that distraction/weak point is identified, the spiritual warfare begins in earnest. Therefore, we should be determined to know and follow the instruction given us in I Peter 5:8 – to “be sober-minded and watchful,” expecting Satan to act, because we can be assured that he will. And he will act, or attack, our weakest areas. He loves to attack the areas of our life that he knows will easily lead us into bad behavior – behavior that we find easy to justify due to our strong opinions, whether those opinions be right or wrong, Godly or Godless. All he has to find is something that we don't like, or something that our friends don't like. Be careful of your friends opinions, they may also lead you astray. They can be tools of spiritual warfare.
“Sober-minded.” If you’re an alcoholic, it’s best to not surround yourselves with others who like to find the bottom of a bottle of spirits. If you’re prone to dislike (and you probably are), it’s best to not surround yourselves with those who like to talk about their problems and dislikes of others. We can quickly become “drunk’ with negative input regarding others, talking about our dislike of small things, or things that don’t even matter in our life – things we just like to find disagreement with. In this inebriated state, our focus is off the battlefield of spiritual warfare in our own life, and it becomes more concentrated on something damaging to others – "friendly fire," in some cases.
It’s interesting to note that I Peter 5:5b-6 tells us, “…Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you…”.
This is direction given to those who are younger, in helping them relate to and learn from their elders; consequently, this verse speaks directly to my point. If we walk in humility towards each other, not seeking to, in pride, wage the war of judgement or personal dislike against everyone we have a disagreement with, God will interject grace into our lives (v.5) and exalt us (v.6). I could use a little less negative and a lot more grace in my life, how about you?
There are many people we will encounter in our lives who do bad things that are dislikable. Some of those things may bring hardship to us, but many of these things aren’t even “bad”…we just don’t care for them, even though they have nothing to do with us at all. They don’t alter our life in any way; they are not sinful, and they don’t hurt anyone – but, because we don’t like them, we choose to make them a part of our life through our thoughts. It’s often just a control issue. We can’t expect to control everyone to fit into a mold that brings us comfort. We’ve not been allotted that kind of authority. Our attempts to claim that authority leads to further distraction, making us very weak on the battlefield of spiritual warfare.
We should be careful to examine the real reasons why we dislike someone, and we should caution ourselves to not be reactionary, but responsive, because our dislike may be fueled by the simple, but very real, reality of spiritual warfare. Examine every thought for origin and worth. Is it from God? Is it justifiable under the shadow of Scripture? Or, is it grounded in our sin nature? If it's grounded in our own personal opinions of right and wrong, or like and dislike, devoid of Scriptural foundation, then it's probably being fed by Satan through spiritual warfare. When you realize that, know that you're in the battle.
When feelings of dislike arise, first, don’t speak them. Second, examine the nature and cause of the dislike. Do your issues of dislike involve you directly? Is it something that brings physical hardship to you, or is it more a matter of your opinion being challenged? Like I said in my last post, we’re not always right. Satan uses our desire to always be correct as motivation for bad feelings, and often "bad talking."
Our mind is a battlefield. Guard it, specifically from feelings of disdain towards others. We’re called to live in peace, and peace with others begins in our own mind and heart.
Romans 12:14-18 says, "Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight. Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.”
Step #1 - Stop talking!
Step #2 - Don’t lose the battle of spiritual warfare!
We'll continue soon!
God Bless, friends!
My previous blog post, “Why Can’t We Be Friends?” elicited quite a few responses.
The biggest questions seemed to be directed at how to deal with those people you just
can’t be friends with? What do you do as Christian when you realize there are people
in your life that you just don’t like? How do you reconcile your feelings, when Scripture
tells us to love everyone? This is a hard subject. I like hard subjects, because they make
me think about how to apply the truth of Scripture to my own life when my feelings fail to
naturally emulate God’s commands. I'll discuss these in a series of upcoming posts,
because it's an important subject to examine.
So, let’s talk about it...
As a Christian who struggles to meet almost any of the standards that I feel God has laid before me, let me go ahead and admit that there are people that I just really don’t like. I’m not talking about politicians, news commentators, sports figures, or delusional third world dictators. Sadly, I’m talking about people that I know – people who are in my life everyday. It’s sad, but it’s the truth. Be careful not to judge my honesty to harshly, fellow Christian, because it’s the truth in your life, as well. So what do we do when we find this dislike emerge from our heart for another?
A really good initial step is to simply be quiet, and be very quiet...very quickly!
I would say this first step should be taken before any other, lest our own witness and character be destroyed before we allow God to change our hearts. Sometimes the best action is found in closing a mouth that contains a sinful tongue…an instrument capable of great harm.
Proverbs 18:21 warns us that, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.”
It’s easy for anyone to develop a distaste for another, and it should be very hard to admit that distaste/dislike in public, but it’s not – is it? For a Christian who should be loving the world around them (John 15:12), we should be very quick to “hold our tongue” in the propagation of our own unChristlikeness toward another. Be aware our opinions of someone else will assist in the formation of the opinion others will hold of them. And, therein, we find a HUGE problem, because we don’t prefer our personal feelings of dislike to go unaccompanied. They get lonely. Instead, we prefer to develop allies for the cause. Allies bring justification to our own bad feelings, and it’s always easier when “no one else likes them either.” We like to be judge and jury, specifically of the public discourse…but we should be extremely careful as we seek to spread the newest "bad word" about others...
Luke 6:37 tells us, “Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven…”
We have a responsibility to not blur the lines of someone’s character just because we may not like them. If we know they’re a thief, or a murderer, then we should speak up, but we should be very careful to not malign another simply because we have a dislike for who they are. Remember, we're not perfect, despite the very high regard we have for ourselves. We'll discuss this more in later posts on this topic.
Jesus experienced these personal and malicious attacks when dealing with the Pharisees and Sadducees. They were quick to publicly voice their dislike of Christ and the way He chose to live His life. They lived for moments where they could diminish His character and make Him look small to the world around Him. They were bullies in fine clothing, and they assumed they were speaking from a point of authority. Jesus just made them look foolish. We should be careful when we speak negatively about others in public; the character being diminished may be that of our own. As we read these accounts in Scripture, it should put a bad taste in our mouth for this type of behavior, but it doesn’t always.
When we dislike someone, it’s always the first and best step to keep that opinion to ourselves.
Ephesians 4:29 – “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.”
James 4:11-12 – “Do not speak evil against one another, brothers. The one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge. There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor?”
Matthew 5:22 – “But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire.”
So, the first step, the best first step…just be quiet as a lamb. In our silence, we will preserve our own character and not sin against another. The world doesn't need our opinion; the world needs to see Jesus in us.
Pray for the ability to control your tongue, even when you have a captive audience awaiting your slanderous thoughts on someone you don’t like…because that’s what they are, right...slanderous? It sounds bad, but let’s be sure to put our “bad” words, spoken toward another, into the correct perspective. We're all guilty, and we could all benefit from some Christlike moments of silence.
Just a couple of questions before we end Part I...
1. When you don't like someone else, does everyone around you know it?
If this is the case, beware. You've already compromised your character and witness, so it's now time for the damage assessment and repair. Again, the first step is to just stop talking...specifically about others. Our opinions are not always necessary...frankly, unless we're asked, they are normally not necessary at all, and seldom are they really appreciated. Keep your negativity to yourself.
2. Do people come to you with an expectation of receiving your bad opinion on everyone else?
If this is the case, congratulations...you're a leader! You're just not the leader you may think you are. People will always seek out some drama and negativity. The human race seems to love the allure of some hurtful gossip. It's as if we "like to dislike." Don't be the leader of that. Don't do or say things that cause your brother to stumble.
Romans 14:13 – "Therefore let us not pass judgment on one another any longer, but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother."
3. How often do you have to talk silently (to those who will listen) to hide your mean-spirited conversation from others?
If you can't say it aloud, for everyone to hear, then it's probably best left unsaid. I'm so guilty of this, myself. When you find yourself huddled in a corner, speaking in hushed tones, your conversation is probably beneath your calling. Again, stop talking.
I wish I could say that I don’t struggle with these thing, but I do. Most do, but that doesn’t make it right. So, the first step...bridle the tongue. It may be like trying to wrestle a bear to the ground and hold him there, but it's a fight well worth your time.
I wish you God’s best for your day! I’ll continue this post soon…
We all remember the show “Friends.” If you’ve been living a in bubble, and you’ve never seen it, you might also be shocked to learn that we’ve landed on the moon, smoking is now bad for you, and Star Wars has more episodes.
Friends was a funny show about – well, it was about friends. I would say they were real friends who argued and had disagreements, but they were always friends. They may have experienced some problems that separated the group from time to time, but, for the most part, they always seemed to end the show with their relationships intact. Wouldn’t it be great if our own lives could mimic that kind of friendly cohesion? But often, our lives fall way short of that fictitiously high sitcom standard, and we find our friendships divided among quarrels that can be senseless and petty.
I think of the Bible narrative of Abram and Lot in Genesis 13. These two men held a relationship that should have been even closer than friends, for they were related. Abram was Lot’s uncle. Yet, they had a problem develop between them. Oddly enough, the problem wasn’t even between Abram and Lot; it was between their respective herdsman.
God had blessed both men with great possessions that included livestock and men who watched after their herds. These possessions were so great between the two of them that the land “between Bethel and Ai” (Genesis 13:3) couldn’t contain them both. So, their herdsmen began to argue.
God had a plan for this, and Abram and Lot parted ways to keep their own relationship intact, because, as Abram pointed out in verse 8, "Let there be no strife between you and me, and between your herdsmen and my herdsmen, for we are kinsmen.” It’s nice to see a levelheaded suggestion prevail. And so, Abram and Lot parted ways because of the disagreement of others.
What happens when we have a disagreement with our friends? Or, what happens when our friends have disagreements with our other friends? I guess, at that point, it’s just time to take sides and develop an effective strategy to destroy the “friends of our friends” that we like the least…maybe those that don’t go to church with us? Or, for even more intriguing drama…those that do! Yeah, that will make Sunday School more comfortable; moreover, it will really bolster our witness! Wait, on second thought, that is a bad idea. Let’s reset.
Three quick thoughts regarding a “much better” idea from the life of Abram…
Make Peace, Not Confrontation, the Priority
Peace is important. We shouldn’t be “peacekeepers,” meaning someone that is trying to always facilitate calm waters, even in the midst of bad behavior. Sometimes peace needs to be broken for “just and right” to prevail; however, we should strive to be “peacemakers,” or people who are seeking a peaceful and right resolution in the midst of conflict.
Abram, as Lot’s uncle, could have told Lot to take his livestock, and his argumentative herdsmen, and head out of town…but he didn’t, did he? Abram took the road of peace, acknowledging that their relationship was more important than the conflict between their herdsmen. He used gentle words, patience, and mature reasoning. Abram’s words were meant to deescalate the intensity of the moment, in the search for a peaceful and amicable solution.
Abram became the epitome of Hebrews 12:14, “Strive for peace with everyone, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord.” This “peacemaker” mentality is a characteristic shown by those who truly have a relationship with Jesus, and these “peacemakers” will be blessed and outwardly identified as “sons of God.” (Matthew 5:9)
Drain the Situation of Any Attempt for Personal Gain/Victory and Fill It with Humility
Abraham did not use this situation as an excuse to profit because of conflict; instead, he actually received the short end of the deal. He gave Lot the choice to pick the land he wanted, and Lot, in typical human fashion…”lifted up his eyes and saw that the Jordan Valley was well watered everywhere like the garden of the Lord…So Lot chose for himself all the Jordan Valley, and Lot journeyed east” (Genesis 13:10-11). Lot really didn’t do anything wrong here, because Abram gave him the first choice, and he chose. Instead of focusing on what may be a manifestation of greed in Lot, let’s focus on what is absolutely a manifestation of selflessness in Abram. Clearly, Abram is living out the call of Philippians 2:3, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.”
Someone told me once that “in every tragedy, someone profits.” That’s probably true, but at what expense? Scripture tells us to do nothing that would purposely lead to profit from our selfish ambition and conceit. Could that also include the “profit” of simply winning the argument in order to make your opponent look bad in front of others? I think that is certainly a meaning that can be applied to this passage of Scripture, specifically in this situation. That’s a tough one for me personally, specifically when those you’re in a disagreement with take the low road of name calling, gossip, and character assassination…all over what is normally only a small matter. Jesus says to “turn the other cheek” (Matthew 5:39). I have to remind myself of that verse often, lest my flesh nature fall out and rupture something important…like my character and witness.
Trust God to Honor the Decisions You Purposely Make that Line Up with His Instruction
Colossians 3:17 simply says, “And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.”
Notice the lack of addenda in that verse that stipulates it’s OK to act in a reprehensible manner when the people you’re dealing with are behaving like “evil off the chain.” Nope, it doesn’t interject that thought anywhere. That verse doesn’t even give permission to deal more harshly with bad behavior in relatives, either. Hiding your crazy inside the family isn’t permissible. Instead, it just plainly states to do everything in the name of Lord…and to give thanks for it…on purpose.
This was what Abram did, and God rewarded him. Abram simply chose to take the road of peace, humbly offered Lot the land of his choice, and then packed up his RV and headed to Canaan. (Full disclosure for you theologians, there may not have been an actual RV).
The end of this narrative is God telling Abram this…“Lift up your eyes and look from the place where you are, northward and southward and eastward and westward, for all the land that you see I will give to you and to your offspring forever. I will make your offspring as the dust of the earth, so that if one can count the dust of the earth, your offspring also can be counted. Arise, walk through the length and the breadth of the land, for I will give it to you.” (Genesis 13:14-17).
What’s interesting is when this promise to Abram was made. The beginning of verse 14 tells us, “The Lord said to Abram, after Lot had separated from him…”. In this particular instance, God didn’t make this promise to Abram beforehand (although God had previously promised to make him into a great nation); instead, God made it after Lot had left the building with all the good stuff...the prime land and well-watered valleys.
How often would we like God to cushion our obedience with promises beforehand? (Well, frankly, He does. His promises for us can all be found in Scripture, but that’s another blog.) But, wouldn’t we like God to tell us where He’ll be taking us a result of our choosing to be Christlike BEFORE we humble our flesh nature into actually being Christlike? That would fabulous, but it's not how God always choses to conduct His business in our life.
The solution is to read Scripture. Interact with God through His Word, and daily communicate with Him through prayer. His promises will be revealed, and your faith will grow. Obedience and sacrifice will become easier, and you will begin to understand the great love that God has for you and for others…even those who strain our ability to behave as “sons of God.” It will become easier to allow yourself to be second, to turn the other cheek, and to give up what you think you want for what God knows you really need.
So the life of Abram, even early in the book of Genesis, reveals a man who not only honored God, but honored friendship, family, and peace. There can’t always be peace, but there can always be a Godly effort put forth to make peace. That effort normally begins when we make a purposed decision to place others ahead of ourselves. Don’t assume that effort will be made by anyone but you. Accept that hypothesis, and be quick to show your Christlikeness first. Be ahead of the curve, and God will honor your efforts.
Anyone who knows me would certainly understand that I love good music. Music has been a foundational aspect of my life for as long as I can remember. My mind is an extensive library of songs, old and new, and that library seems to never reach a point of overload. Much of the music that is stored forever in my mind is sung by my wonderful friend, Janet Paschal.
Early last year, I invited Janet to Rainsville First to sing at Christmas. The previous year, in 2018, we had set up a concert date which ultimately fell through, because North Carolina was covered in snow. In December 2019, she made it! The concert was beautiful, and it was great to see Janet again. It was also wonderful to meet Kay, Janet’s sister, and John, her pilot…who also serves faithfully as her loving husband. I had never met John, but I will assure you that we became quick friends. He said he would let me fly his plane. John was a Senior Captain for United Airlines who flew 747's...my expectations on the plane are high!
Following the concert, we spent a few hours talking over dinner. Well, John and I were talking. As the “think-tank”, John and I solved more than a few world problems that evening. I’m not sure what everyone else did. John and I assumed they talked too, but who knows? It was a great evening with wonderful friends. We laughed, reminisced, and thoroughly enjoyed our time together.
As Janet sang through her program earlier that night, I began to recall her decades of spectacular music that has graced the lives of so many. Songs like, One Rock, Written in Red, If I’d Had My Way, God Will Make A Way…and so many more. My eyes teared up a little as I thought about how these songs integrated themselves, not just into my heart, but into my own ministry, as well. Many of Janet’s greatest hits were sang by me at churches across the southeast in the early years of my own ministry. Those songs helped to form my mindset of how wonderful God actually was and His great love for me. And, those same songs, slowly and methodically, taught me the power of one voice willing to be used by God.
We all have a voice. Some of us use that voice behind a microphone, accompanied by music, to sing to others of the wonderful message of Jesus. Many would preach or teach. Whether you have a voice that reaches many, or a voice that reaches only a few, you still have a voice. Everyone’s voice has the capacity to reach someone. What does your voice say to the world around you? If, more often than not, it’s full of gossip, opinion and complaining, then you’re probably not saying much of worth. If it’s full of compassion, grace, and love, then you may be saying more than you even realize. Using our voice is a privilege. Whether speaking or singing, our voices are created to bring glory and recognition to God. We carry a powerful message!
“Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, God making his appeal through us. We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God.” – II Corinthians 5:20. (ESV)
Have you ever stopped to really understand what that verse is actually saying? God has chosen us to carry His message to the world! He makes His appeal, His holy and righteous appeal, through our lives and our voices. What an incredible privilege to be found worthy to pass along that powerful and life-changing message. Do you view yourself as an ambassador of Christ? You should, because you are! If you do, you’ll understand the importance of your voice and the message it speaks forth.
Our minds, hearts, body, and voice are designed by a loving God to be used as ambassadors for Christ to a world in great need. That great need is Jesus. I’ve often heard it said that we may be the only “Jesus” someone will ever meet…meaning, we may be the only person who takes the time to speak the love of Christ into someone’s life. You know, we don’t meet anyone by chance. Every person crosses our path for a purpose, even when the point that “path-crossing” occurs happens as they carelessly run a red light and almost plow into the side of your car. At that moment, how you choose to use the voice that God gave you might be instrumental in their life. Know that it’s an opportunity. It’s an opportunity to either be screaming mad and obnoxious or to “be Jesus.” What will you leave as the legacy of that spoken moment? It matters.
We’re still in the opening week of a brand new year, and this is a great time to evaluate our own voice and examine what it’s speaking to the world around us. It’s hard to always be nice to a world that may seldom extend any nicety to us, but it’s not harder than Jesus dying on a cross for the very people who nailed Him to it. Our ability to speak Jesus into our world is not dictated by our circumstances...it's chosen by the depth of our walk with the Lord. Regardless of what may be occurring at any given moment, choose to use your voice to "speak Jesus."
I thank God for Janet and her voice. I’m thankful that it’s always quick to speak and sing about the love of God. I pray my own voice would be tempered by her example, and I pray my future words might be evaluated under the light of Christ abiding within me…and those words be found worthy of the ambassadorship God has called me to.
“And he said with a loud voice, “Fear God and give him glory, because the hour of his judgment has come, and worship him who made heaven and earth, the sea and the springs of water.”
– Revelation 14:7
The great English preacher Charles Haddon Spurgeon once said, “The present age is so flippant that if a man loves the Savior, he is a fanatic, and if he hates the powers of evil, he is a bigot.” That quote would have emerged from his lips in the mid 1800’s, referencing an opinion that society held, even then, regarding true followers of Christ…”fanatical bigots.” It was a prevailing thought in the 1800’s, and it continues to be a prevailing thought to this very day.
Spurgeon’s quote is reflective of several promises in Scripture, and I’m not referring to “feel good” promises; I’m referring to the promise of some harsh criticism and ill-intent towards those who outwardly live a life that seeks to glorify God.
“If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. Remember the word that I said to you: ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will also persecute you. If they kept my word, they will also keep yours.” – John 15:18-20 (ESV)
What does 2020 hold for you and your relationship with a sinful world? Let me encourage you to hope and pray that your walk with God is so strong that the new year will hold some harsh criticism (and even hatred) of you by a world that sees you making a difference for Christ.
Now, that doesn’t sound right, does it? Why would we hope for criticism, hatred, or even persecution? Here’s why: It’s proof that our life is showing the outward signs of the Lordship of Christ, and therefore, it’s boldly challenging the normalization of evil in our world. There will always be evil in this life, and thus, our own lives should always stand in stark contrast to that evil. So, until the Lord returns, if we are living for Christ, we can expect some problems. Frankly, instead of fearing those problems, we should revel in them.
Instead of praying that this new year holds only calm waters, agreeable peers, and great personal prosperity, would it be so odd for a serious child of God to pray that their life is at least a tad disruptive to Satan’s agenda, disruptive enough to possibly see some consequences from the opposition? Remember, if we’re not receiving opposition from the world regarding our faith, it’s probably because our faith isn’t making a difference in the world.
Do we long for that type of walk with God? Do we have the faith to pray for God to use us even if it means we will have to stand against a world full of angry people (many who identify as Christians) coming against us? I guarantee you that very few people who read this will start praying for a walk with God that produces friction, criticism, or problems of any kind, but very few people will choose to live a life that brings any challenge to the comforts of Satan’s agenda in this present age.
Let 2020 be a great year of building your walk with God, increasing your faith, and living a life that is constantly disruptive to Satan’s plans. Let people say what they will. We’re not present on this earth to please people. Expect some criticism, and walk through it empowered by a much greater vision…a vision of pleasing God by living a life in stark contrast to the world. Trust me, if you truly intend on following God, you will not please the world. Honestly, you won’t even please many of those at your church. They may think you to be crazy, fanatical, or even bigoted. In the context of this post, love the Savior, hate evil, and be the fanatical bigot!
I wish you a wonderful New Year! I hope it’s a year of happiness, health, wonderful relationships, growth in Christ, and immense disruption of Satan. If it is, expect some problems. Greet them with a smile, because your God is greater than the war that rages against Him! Live 2020 in victory, my friends!
As I studied today, I ran across some startling statics regarding the decline of the church
in our nation. The numbers are startling, and they are heartbreaking. We should pray daily
for the hearts of American churches, for God to give them a passion to let go tradition,
agenda, and the pursuit of comfort and seek simply to follow God's path
into ministry that leaves a mark on the world.
I won't share my discoveries today. Instead, I thought I would share some truths
from Thom Rainer, truths that he shared in a blog post from March 17, 2017.
His blog post is below...
NINE CHANGES WE MUST MAKE OR DIE
It broke my heart…
Another church closed. This church had unbelievable potential. Indeed, it had its own
“glory days,” but only for a season. But, 10 years ago, few would have predicted this church’s closure. Today, it is but another statistic in the ecclesiastical graveyard.
I know. We don’t compromise doctrine. I know. We must never say we will change God’s Word.
But many of our congregations must change. They must change or they will die.
I call these churches “the urgent church.” Time is of the essence. If changes do not happen soon, very soon, these churches will die. The pace of congregational death is accelerating.
What, then, are some of the key changes churches must make? Allow me to give you a fair warning. None of them are easy. Indeed, they are only possible in God’s power. Here are nine of them:
1. We must stop bemoaning the death of cultural Christianity.
Such whining does us no good. Easy growth is simply not a reality for many churches. People no longer come to a church because they believe they must do so to be culturally accepted. The next time a church member says, “They know where we are; they can come here if they want to,” rebuke him. Great Commission Christianity is about going; it’s not “y’all come.”
2. We must cease seeing the church as a place of comfort and stability in the midst of rapid change.
Certainly, God’s truth is unchanging. So we do find comfort and stability in that reality. But don’t look to your church not to change methods, approaches, and human-made traditions. Indeed, we must learn to be uncomfortable in the world if we are to make a difference. “We’ve never done it that way before,” is a death declaration.
3. We must abandon the entitlement mentality.
Your church is not a country club where you pay dues to get your perks and privileges. It is a gospel outpost where you are to put yourself last. Don’t seek to get your way with the music, temperature, and length of sermons. Here is a simple guideline: Be willing to die for the sake of the gospel. That’s the opposite of the entitlement mentality.
4. We must start doing.
Most of us like the idea of evangelism more than we like doing evangelism. Try a simple prayer and ask God to give you gospel opportunities. You may be surprised how He will use you.
5. We must stop using biblical words in unbiblical ways.
“Discipleship” does not mean caretaking. “Fellowship” does not mean entertainment.
6. We must stop focusing on minors.
Satan must delight when a church spends six months wrangling over a bylaw change. That’s six months of gospel negligence.
7. We must stop shooting our own.
This tragedy is related to the entitlement mentality. If we don’t get our way, we will go after the pastor, the staff member, or the church member who has a different perspective than our own. We will even go after their families. Don’t let bullies and perpetual critics control the church. Don’t shoot our own. It’s not friendly fire.
8. We must stop wasting time in unproductive meetings, committees, and business sessions.
Wouldn’t it be nice if every church member could only ask one question or make one comment in a meeting for every time he or she has shared his or her faith the past week?
9. We must become houses of prayer.
Stated simply, we are doing too much in our own power. We are really busy, but we are not doing the business of God.
Around 200 churches will close this week, maybe more. The pace will accelerate unless our congregations make some dramatic changes. The need is urgent.
Hear me well, church leaders and church members. For many of your churches the choice is simple: change or die.
Time is running out. Please, for the sake of the gospel, forsake yourself and make the changes in God’s power.
Thom S. Rainer is the president and CEO of LifeWay Christian Resources. Prior to LifeWay, he served at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary for twelve years where he was the founding dean of the Billy Graham School of Missions and Evangelism. He is a 1977 graduate of the University of Alabama and earned his Master of Divinity and Ph.D. degrees from The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary.
In addition to speaking in hundreds of venues over the past 20 years, Rainer led Rainer Group, a church and denominational consulting firm, from 1990 to 2005. The firm provided church health insights to over 500 churches and other organizations over that period.
Rainer and his wife, Nellie Jo, have three grown sons: Sam, Art and Jess, who are married to Erin, Sarah and Rachel respectively. The Rainers have ten grandchildren: Canon, Maggie, Nathaniel, Will (with the Lord), Harper, Bren, Joshua, Collins, Joel, and James.
He is the author of more than two dozen books, including I Am a Church Member, Breakout Churches, Autopsy of a Deceased Church, Simple Life, Simple Church, Raising Dad, The Millennials, Essential Church, and Who Moved My Pulpit?
It's been a while since I've posted anything here, and I appreciate the gentle reminders
from many of you who continue to follow the sporadic posts
of a very busy and often distracted mind. I have determined, at least for
the moment, that 2019 will hold more posts...we'll see!
I hope that each of you had a wonderful Christmas, and I also hope that the entrance
of 2019 into our life brings with it great hope and excitement!
Let me thank you guys for continuing to ask about my father,
his health, and his continued recovery. I promise to update you very soon
on my dad...just know that he's doing great!
Below, I've posted a blog from Meg Bucher. The topic is on Scripture memorization.
Let me encourage you (and myself) to start 2019 off with a mind determined
to "hide God's Word in our heart." There's nothing more important!
7 Effective Ways to Memorize Scripture
Memorizing Scripture alludes a lot of us. Why would the Devil want to make it easy for us to carry around the Living Word of God on the tips of our tongues and the top of our minds? Because it’s powerful!
“I have hidden your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you." – Psalm 119:11
The Hebrew word for “word” in this verse is “promise.” David wanted to hold onto God’s promise, knowing that was the only way he stood a chance of resisting sin. This side of the Gospel, we cling to the promise of Jesus. We no longer have to worry about the impossibility of avoiding the fall into sin; rather, we hold onto the grace of forgiveness that allows us to repent and keep moving towards holiness … and a heart like His. Jesus is the Word.
“In the beginning, the Word already existed. The Word was with God, and the Word was God. He existed in the beginning with God. God created everything through him, and nothing was created except through him. The Word gave life to everything that was created, and his life brought light to everyone. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it.” – John 1:1-6
“Study this Book of Instruction continually. Meditate on it day and night so you will be sure to obey everything written in it. Only then will you prosper and succeed in all you do.”
– Joshua 1:8
Study. The very word requires effort and exudes the dread of the impending work required; however, studying the Word every day is the only way we will be able to benefit from God’s instruction.
I once heard a pastor speak on being obsessed with God’s Word over obsession with self that is pride. How often do we look to ourselves for solutions to our problems? How often are our problems a result of our pride? We can self-create a world full of doubt inside of our minds that plays right into the Devil’s lies and schemes to derail our effectiveness as Christians.
“Keep their words always in your heart. Tie them around your neck. When you walk, their counsel will lead you. When you sleep, they will protect you. When you wake up, they will advise you.”
– Proverbs 6:21-22
Reading God’s Word daily will help us to recall and remember the pieces of wisdom He knows our hearts need to hear the most. Early morning discoveries can make our hearts stop. Jot them down on a sticky note, and remember.
God’s Word has the power to look beyond our circumstances and reach into another life with encouragement. Daily time in the Word will move us to recall a verse when bringing cheer to a friend through a note or a text. There are hearts in need all over this world, and when we are moved by something we read in God’s Word, it’s for a reason.
“So encourage each other with these words.” – I Thessalonians 4:18
A Bible that is highlighted and page-marked with sticky notes can be a road map to encouragement. Christian-authored books consumed with highlights and notes beg to be quoted. Journals kept in an effort to maintain focus may meet everyday needs of reference. God will use a piece of Scripture buried in that Bible to enlighten someone with the hope that it holds.
Sometimes, memorization occurs naturally as we encourage others with the knowledge that God reveals. An earmarked moment helps us to remember.
“Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.” – Romans 12:2
Memorization requires repetition. When we start slowly, with one verse at a time, God begins a change in our hearts. Patience and persistence in our quest to internalize His Word allows our Father to speak to us through it.
Recollection of Scripture will transform us, as the verse above promises. The choice to focus on God’s Word reveals His character. Our Father will provide us with insight into our dilemmas, and advice for enduring suffering. God’s Word has the power to put everything into heavenly perspective.
Whether it’s repeating Scripture in the elementary car pick-up line, on our morning walk or jog, instead of playing Candy Crush during our work break, or while we cook dinner—just keep repeating.
It’s important to tune our hearts to God’s song. Although our lives are full of craziness, if we don’t re-route them, they will throw our efforts to retain Scripture at the front of our minds overboard.
“Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts.”
– Colossians 3:16
When we find our minds drifting into the abyss, we can tune our earbuds or our satellite radios to Christian music, say a prayer of thanks for God stirring our hearts to spend time with Him, and remember our goal to memorize. If there is a song with remnants or whole versions of the verse we are trying to memorize in the lyrics, that’s even better. After all, we’ve been taught to remember things by song our entire lives, starting with the ABC’s!
Why do our brains sometimes choose to remember exactly what the piece of paper our memory verse is written on looks like, but refuse to connect the visual to audibly spoken words?
“All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.” – II Timothy 3:16-17
Scripture is most accurately remembered when directly applied. God does not randomly inspire us to memorize just any old verse. Let’s not miss the direct application to the situation God is speaking into. There’s no “coincidence” where God’s living Word is concerned. He speaks directly to our hearts.
God can take one verse and teach many lessons and different times in life. Some people claim a “life verse” because it’s become a sort of anthem to their life and reflection of their relationship with God. We are more likely to remember God’s Word when we seek to continually apply those verses to everyday life.
“But when the Father sends the Advocate as my representative—that is, the Holy Spirit—he will teach you everything and will remind you of everything I have told you.” – John 14:26
Memorizing Scripture doesn’t have to be something we do alone. God reminds us in His promise in John 14:26 that the Holy Spirit will help us. It literally says that He will “remind” us, and the power of prayer to ask Him for help doesn’t hurt!
Here is an example of a way to prayerfully ask the Holy Spirit’s help in remembering Scripture:
Father, praise You for Your Word! It is alive and active and applicable to our everyday lives. Thank You for equipping us to serve You through it, and for encouraging and teaching us with every phrase and story. Forgive us for failing to focus on Your Word long enough to internalize it. Bless us to be able to memorize Your Word, Father. Send Your Holy Spirit, who lives in us from the moment we accept Christ as our Savior, to allow our minds to apply and recall Your Word. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Prayer is powerful! He hears every prayer. Don’t ever hesitate to ask for help from the God of miracles.
The most important purpose in memorizing Scripture is to spread the love of Jesus and to share the Gospel. A point-blank question as to why we believe can shock us. How can we explain something that has become such an automatic part of our existence? It’s our job to know.
“Instead, you must worship Christ as Lord of your life. And if someone asks about your hope as a believer, always be ready to explain it.” – I Peter 3:15
There are always simple truths to fall back on, that we as Christians need to have ready at the tip of our tongues. Even if we can’t quote the chapter and verse, we can repeat the truth of God’s Word just as powerfully.
It’s important to remember, and to tell, of the glory and hope of the love of our great God. The forgiveness that Jesus died to grant us. It needs to be so passionately woven into our conversation by our efforts to remember God’s Word that it practically falls our of our mouths in praise. Remember, God promises that “he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus" (Philippians 1:6).
Crosswalk.com Contributing Writer
Meg writes about everyday life within the love of Christ on her blog, http://sunnyand80.org. “Mom” is the most important calling on her life, next to encouraging others to seek Him first…authentically. A writer, dance mom, substitute teacher, youth worship leader/teacher, and Bible Study leader, she can often be found having some kind of an adventure in the small little lake town where she resides with her husband of ten years, two daughters, and their Golden-doodle.
“And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name
under heaven given among men by which we must be saved.”
Acts 4:12 (ESV)
There are many roads to failure in this life. There are fewer roads to success, but there is still more than one way to get there. But what about the path leading away from this physical life and into eternity? How many roads lead to Jesus?
Recently, a video surfaced of Pope Francis comforting a small boy whose father, an atheist, had died. The young man simply asked the Pope if his father was in Heaven. Even though his father was an atheist, he was a good man, and he had taken the time to have his children baptized. Now he had departed this life, and the mind of his young son was suddenly focused on thoughts of eternity.
Upon the death of a precious loved one, we all find great comfort in imagining them walking into the loving arms of Jesus. Many begin to examine the life of the departed from the standpoint of their good works. As people gather around the casket, stories are exchanged and tears are shed. We find great solace in reminiscing the good times, because they often bring about smiles and laughter…enough to cover the grief and tears of the moment. But, there’s always the question, and it’s a question that may never be voiced aloud, but it should be.
It’s the very same question that troubled the aforementioned young boy…”where is my loved one now?” “Are they with Jesus?” Certainly no one would appreciate a negative answer to this question at the graveside…and so, the emotion of the moment, and the quest to show compassion and comfort, outweighs further inquiry into whether or not the departed really had a genuine relationship with the Lord that was evident. The desire to feel good about the moment trumps the desire to know the truth, and it reinforces in culture a false narrative that God would never send a good person to Hell.
When someone we love dies, many will often loosen their theological perspective to allow room for emotions to buffer the pain of what my remain unspoken but still staggeringly obvious. Here, I’m referring to a person who has died and who has never evidenced a genuine, life changing faith and relationship with Jesus.
If “dad” was a true atheist, and if he lived his entire life personally rejecting the existence of God, then it is doubtful that he had a genuine relationship with the Lord. If his words and actions are the evidence of his real beliefs, then “dad” is not in the presence of God upon his death; instead, he is awaiting a final judgment which will eternally separate him from God. It’s a hard truth, but it’s a truth that should be spoken aloud for others to hear and understand.
Often the death of a loved one is all that will focus people on the question of eternal security, because the weight of that question has just hit them in the face. Yet, we often hide Jesus, the one true way to Heaven, behind softly spoken assurances that the good life of the deceased has done its job and swept them into the arms of Jesus…regardless of the evidence of Lordship.
Many embrace religions that entertain multiple paths to salvation. Many of these would factor in our works and good deeds as pivotal to our “attainment” of a place in Heaven. Sadly, many of these religions are loosely based around the Bible, and the followers of these religions would identify themselves as “Christians.”
God’s Word is very clear as to the number of roads that lead to Heaven. There can ever only be one, and His name is Jesus.
John 14:6 says, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.”
I Timothy 2:5 says, “For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus…”
John 10:9 says, “I am the door. If anyone enters by me, he will be saved…”
I John 5:11-12 says, "And this is the testimony, that God gave us eternal life, and this life is in His Son. Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have the Son of God does not have life.”
There’s no room for comforting ambiguity in these verses. Scripture is not vague or obscure in defining for us the one pathway to Heaven. It is man who alters the criteria, often for the sake of compassion or pity. Possibly, we just don’t want to offend others, so we water down the reality of God’s Word, redefining the very nature of salvation, while cheapening the blood of Jesus into something that may not actually be required for an eternity in God’s presence.
Salvation is not “granted” by weighing out the good deeds a man has performed over the course of his life. It is not “acquired” by examining the culmination of our knowledge or wisdom at the end of our days. It is not “given” to us by the demands of a culture that is convinced that a quality life, full of virtue, morals and character, will lead them to Heaven.
Back to the young boy whose father had died…
There’s varying opinions on what Pope Francis meant in his answer to this distressed young child, and I will not debate the theories here. I will say this, if we speak “Heavenly assurances” to someone concerning the eternal destination of their loved one, and that loved one was an atheist who denied God, we perpetuate a great untruth. The only eternal comfort to others in the death of a loved one who did not know the Lord is the realization that, for those who remain, Jesus is still waiting, and very much longing, to save them. There’s still time for them to make a decision to follow Christ.
Replacing truth for comfort is dangerous. The words of Scripture cannot be bent around emotion. The Words of God are not meant to console the grieving as much as they are meant to bring a recognition of the truth. So, it’s important to understand that not all of Scripture is intended to comfort…a great deal of it is there to warn. Death is coming; Heaven is real, and, my friends, Hell is also real…and it will have residents.
In times of death, be compassionate, but do not fail to see the consequences of a life lived in rebellion towards God. When dealing with those who believe that there are multiple paths to Heaven, again, be compassionate, but do not fail to speak the truth. Forever, there has only been one way to Heaven, and that one way is Jesus Christ.
“Consequently, He is able to save to the uttermost those who draw near to God through him, since He always lives to make intercession for them.” – Hebrews 7:25 (ESV)
How much patience we show while enduring the trials of life is the marker which uncovers the true depth of our trust in God, a trust that is only developed through real relationship. The speaking of great faith and trust in God is quite different from a life that manifests those traits in patience and restraint. The outward manifestation always shows the reality of the inner condition.
Scripture’s call is for us to be like Jesus. I John 2:6 is clear when it tells us that "whoever says he abides in Him (Jesus) ought to walk in the same way in which he walked.” Jesus walked in great faith and trust in God the Father; He walked full of love and compassion, and He walked in tremendous patience and restraint.
As our Savior walked this earth, He was certainly not invited to be a part of the “good ole’ boys club” of the day. Jesus walked outside the circles of influence within the modern and organized religion of His time, relentlessly pursued by the sarcasm and scorn of the Pharisees and Sadducees, the recognized standard bearers of the assault upon Christ. He never lost a verbal confrontation with them, but He still showed great restraint. He could have done much more than turn their tricky questions into teaching opportunities. He could have simply ended their existence upon this earth with only a word.
Christ’s greatest example of restraint would certainly be the time surrounding His crucifixion. Being ridiculed, scourged, and nailed to a tree… He could have ended that little charade of human strength at any moment, but, instead, He chose to endure it to completion. Because of His great love for us, Jesus knew that sin must be dealt with, and He knew that His own body was the instrument of our redemption. His suffering of the trial of the cross was the road that He knew must be traveled, and His death, at the hands of those He came to redeem, must precede the ultimate victory of His resurrection. God’s plan was flawless…but, God’s plan wasn’t easy, not even for His own Son.
This brings me to my point…
Life is hard. We are often set upon a path which leads us to a place where we fully recognize that we have no authority or control. We must understand that these storms are purposed for us. God alone knows the road that we must travel down, a road that leads to His perfect will. Again, God’s plan is flawless, but it’s not always easy, and it’s not always painless.
In our pursuit of God, or quite possibly His pursuit of us, we will experience purposed storms, we will be thoroughly tested, and we will most assuredly leave these interactions with scars. It’s at the point of trial, as those scars are being formed, where our trust in God should lead us to an enduring patience and restraint.
If we really want to find the calm of God within the storms of life, we must show the purposed restraint of Christ. We must trust through adversity, and we must allow that flawless plan of God to unfold before eyes that are focused on His sovereignty and not on our schemes to relieve the pressure of a painful situation through our own means.
What must we endure to be within the will of God? The Bible promises trials. We’ve been warned. We should be prepared.
James 1:2-8 tells us…
“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.”
The ESV uses the word “steadfastness” in this verse. It simply means "dutifully firm and unwavering.” I would add that it implies an aspect of “trusting restraint" in the plan and methods of God to move us from one level of relationship to another level, a level that is deeper and more profound. The plan and methods of God may be painful at times, but they are flawless in every respect. It’s hard to see that truth in the middle of the storm, but a relevant relationship with God should reveal to us His strength, which, in turn, should enable in us an unshakeable trust…even when we’re unsure of what He’s doing or where He’s taking us.
The testing of our faith should be a catalyst for restraint, and, as stated in the verse above, in it’s full effect, that restraint (trusting and waiting on God) will leave us “perfect and complete, lacking nothing.” But, so often, we must go through the storm to harvest these wonderful promises.
When the storms of life present themselves, we should possibly only pray for God to “present” Himself. Instead of getting caught up in asking God to “fix it” our way, maybe we should just pray that we could have a recognition of God’s presence as the waves toss the boat? And, our prayers to God should be from a heart that is doubtless and full of faith, even if it’s God’s will that the storm should continue for a season, as often it is.
God isn’t “blowing our boat” in a random direction. He’s driving it, often with hard winds and mighty waves, directly to a planned destination where we will have a sincere recognition of His will and sovereignty, and where we can see a profound and very clear depiction of His glory. Sometimes we have to wait out the storm, trusting and restrained under the perfect protection of His might hand.
If we really want the calm of God in the middle of adversity, we should plan to exercise a trusting restraint, a manifestation of our real and growing relationship with a God who is willing to lead us far beyond the predetermined walls of our comfort zone, to find the glory of His will…a real glory that may only be found by us in situations where our feet can no longer touch the bottom.
Regardless of the persona we seek to display to those around us, we are a fragile people, ill-equipped to fight almost any battle in our own strength. It doesn’t take much of storm to completely uproot us from all stability, whether it be spiritual, emotional, relational, etc…
The Fragile Children of an All-Powerful God...
Paul tells the church in Corinth: "We now have this light shining in our hearts, but we ourselves are like fragile clay jars containing this great treasure. This makes it clear that our great power is from God, not from ourselves.” (2 Corinthians 4:7)
Paul is defining for us the true weakness of our flesh, as well as our greatest need, which is God. This is why we discussed examining our ‘real’ relationship with Him in my last blog. If we’re looking for the calm of God, then it starts with real relationship, the foundation on which our exploration of the wonders of God begin. It is only in that real relationship that we will personally uncover the depth of our incredible power, rooted deeply in intimate association with God Himself. This is important because of what is coming…
The Promise of Calm-Shattering Storms...
Paul continues: “We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed, but not driven to despair. We are hunted down, but never abandoned by God. We get knocked down, but we are not destroyed. Through suffering, our bodies continue to share in the death of Jesus so that the life of Jesus may also be seen in our bodies.” (2 Corinthians 4:8-10).
We are weak, but the previous verse reveals the great strength of God working in the life of His true child. It is only through our suffering where we truly realize the depth of our need for the strength and presence of God. Possibly, it should give us clearer focus of what Christ suffered for us?
Trouble and hardship have been a natural part of this life since sin entered the equation in the Garden of Eden. Trouble is coming. Expect it. And, know that, even through the most brutal of situations, there can be calm in the life of a genuine and focused child of God.
The Master of the Storms...
We serve a powerful God, One who can call out to the storm, and it must obey. Whether this is a storm of nature, a storm of emotion, a storm of confusion, or a storm of faith…God is the master of all storms, both internal and external.
Psalm 107:29 tells us that Jesus “stilled the storm to a whisper; the waves of the sea were hushed.”
Scared and faith-rattled disciples were anticipating disaster on the boat as the storm violently churned around them. The boat began to fill up with water. It would have been a frantic scene, to say the least. Although Jesus was on this very boat with them, calmly sleeping through the chaos that so frightened the disciples, they still knew where to run for help at the point of their need. They brought their situation directly to Jesus. They sought His face, because they had a growing relationship with Him.
Their simple knowledge of Jesus, and their claim of faith, did not calm them, and it certainly didn’t calm the storm. It was only when they engaged with Him, through their growing relationship with the Savior, that things began to turn around. They knew that religion would not save them. Thinking good thoughts didn’t numb the feeling of the water rising around their ankles. Only Jesus could bring calm, and He did it by harnessing the fury of nature itself. What an awesome God we serve...a God to whom the storms bow! He’s worthy of our trust and attention.
The waters of life will most assuredly not always remain calm, but the child of God, the authentic child, the one who seeks a deep relationship with Him, can always find perfect calm in the midst of even the mightiest of storms. The reason…they know that whatever the storm may be, they need only find God in it.
The strength behind the calm is God. When you have found God, you have found the answer to your distress and fear. Let the storms rage, but find God. He will either calm the waves or calm His child.
Next: When the Storms Continue to Rage: A God of Great Restraint
Keith Beatty is a Worship, Missions and Media Pastor living in North Alabama. He's excited and very humbled to be a follower of Jesus Christ!